Hitting, kicking, teasing, beating, treaten and harass one of their peers in a verbal way, grab people’s stuff and money, force people to do something that they don’t want to do, locking them in or out of the rooms and sending nasty notes or text messages are such of examples of bullying that happen nowadays. Bullies act that way because for attention. They might think bullying is a way to be popular or to get what they want. Most bullies are trying to make themselves feel more important. When they pick on someone else, it can make them feel big and powerful. Therefore, some bullies tend to come from families that are characterized as having little warmth or affection. Parents of bullies also tend to use inconsistent discipline and little monitoring of where their children are throughout the day. Sometimes parents of bullies have very punitive and rigid discipline styles, with physical punishment being very common. Bullies also report less feelings of closeness to their siblings. Bullying can happen to everyone such as workers, students or children. These victims are often considered younger, weaker or sicker by their peers. Being bullied can make someone feel really bad. The stress of dealing with bullies can make them acts moody, don’t want to go outside, grades drop and physical illness. Many victims begin to distruct all their peers and have problem making friends. It's hard to keep mind on work when they worried about how to deal with the bully again. Bullying can make anywhere place a place of fear and can lead to more violence and more stress for everyone. But no one needs to put up with a bully's behavior. If you or someone you know is bothered by a bully, talk to someone you trust. Everyone has the right to feel safe, and being bullied makes people feel unsafe. Tell someone about it and keep telling until something is done. Bullying is a big problem that affects a lot of people but what do you do if someone is bullying you??
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ryna
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ryna
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bullies??i ve many experienced about bullies cause my former school was border school that is compulsary for the students to live in hostel..
In my experinced bullies always happen in the hostel and i ve been bullied by the senior and also ve been bullies my junior.hehe..
Bullies is 1 way to through out their depression and sometimes to show seniority and power..
So,parents make take seriously about this matter become it bcome worse and can destroy one's happiness.
Bullies among boys was vry serious cause they use beating and kicking until come to serious injured.there are cases in my former school that the students was in coma for 1 week cause being bullied by the senior.
So,my advise is "Think before you do something and care what other people's feeling!!"
Bullies??well honestly..no one ever bully me...in a simple word...i don't have that experience coz i'm not live in hostel before..for me bullies is something that terrible..but we can't simply just blame them coz mybe they got their own reason..I agree when rina said that sometime they bully coz they want an attention..But if we can give some advse to them..perhaps they are other ways to become famous and get people attention..usually this thing happen to guy..coz they got more power than gurl in this case..but they also gurl involve with this cases.So..my advised..avoid bullies and don't ever bully other people...just enjoy ur self..
i dont like to
bully another people..
bully is a bad thing
dat i know.....
because it can make ourself in
stress,
tension
can't do a work..
and anything....
bt at d same time some people
do bully bcoz as a hooby and they can't stop themself to bully anither people..
although we have a lot of alternative ti avoid dis cases but know bully was be a trend at d kolej.....
senior will bully junior coz when there a junior there was ragging by senior so that is continuosly event will be at kolej as a trend.....
Assalamualaikum...
What i can says about bullies..
Bullies is a one action or one unmoral people because they want to show their are power....
But THEY not power....
Bullies happend expecially at boys group...such as at university when they in hostel...senior bully their junior....
But in nowdays bully also happend in girls group...But girls bully not to much such boys...
In my group , eja is a bully gurls...
Hehehehehehe.......
hm..for me to bullies always feel a lack of respect, so they try to get it from weak, succumbing, and gullible individuals who do not have self respect. On the other hand, if you have self-respect and you surround yourself with respectable people in class or at your job, the bully sort of "looks" up to you because you have something that he/she doesn't have. In case the bully envies you, he can't do anything about it if influential people are on your side.So,juz remmember don't try to be cool but just accpted...
nurul why u sais tht eja is a bullies in our group??????
it's tht true??
i think yes...hahahaha...
so class,beware of pija..!@!!!!!
espcially for ruse(KYRA)!!!!:p
mmm...interesting, wat will i do if i were being bullied? i will make sure i get my revenge! huhuhu... we must learn how to protect ourselves from these bullies. we have parents too n people who loves us, so y should we let others bully us? rite.. i pity those who keeps quiet when they r bullied by others. y must we keep it to ourselves? :)
hmm...i think the bullies often come from a family that has a problem such as their parent divorces,etc. So, to make their parent paying attention to them, they started to bully someone else. This bully also want release their anger by bully someone else, because they faces a lot of problem at homes. so, before we blame the bullies 100%, we must see their main factor that make them to be a bullies.
this is my opinion, how about the others....
-syukri-
Bullying can take any form. It can be verbal bullying, physical violence, racism, ageism, stalking or domestic abuse. Bullying causes fear and alarm in its victims. There is no need for bullying what so ever. Just because someone may be different in some way shape or form this should not allow people to pick on them for that reason.
Bullying happens everywhere, to everyone. But that's not the be all and end all
Only the victim has the power to stop the bully. So if you're a victim of bullying, I urge you, not just for your sake but for that of your friends as well, speak out!
It helps to talk about your problems to your friends. And even if people haven't been through it themselves, just listening, making sure you know they're there is enough
If you are a bully, what you need to understand is that while it is fun to you, it is not fun to others. You probably have never felt it, but if you had you wouldn't want to bully because it is not nice. You have to think about the victims! Think about how you would feel if you were them. You would want it to stop and that is how they feel.
-sofi-
bully will happen when a person or by group want to be a stronger then others.and the victim is a person who look so weak.
if someone do something which hurt me,i will protect myself.
for example, i will give some 'feedback' to them.wa...
why not??right?if someone do somthing bad to us,we have to do something to ensure they will think thousands times to do something else to me.aha...da....
Bullying can cause Violence. And violence is the extreme end of aggression. But not all people who are aggressive become bullies.
When children and teens use violence to get what they want-whether it's punching,kicking or hitting, it usually involves a scenario where they're being told "no" to something they really mad, or they're being told that they don't want to hear.
What actually happens is that the child gets frustrated and angry and hasn't learned any other way to deal with these feelings than to strike out.
1.First way of looking at this issue is consider the kid's frustration, disappointment and anger.They find these all are problems and they solve it by being bullies.So the adult need to be close at them and guide them how to deal with it.
2.Second way of looking at this is that the kid's use of aggression and bullying method has worked successfully so far.They never find a good fight and never learn a lesson.
3.Violence is a seductive shortcut to power. And once it works, it's hard to get kids to accept alternative ways of getting power. Many times, parents need a good approaches to handle this problem.
Whoever we are, we have to teach "these" kids a good lesson so that they have an alternative way of dealing with these situations and feelings.
-UMAM-
"Deal with problem with your head.U will find the result is very impressive"
Assalamualaikum
Thanks to you ryna because you give me more information about this.What u tell me is true.They just want to get attention from the other people around them.They want everybody scare and respect them.Then,they will get more person to participate in their gangs and they will be more powerful.
Usually,they move in group and in that group must have a one leader to control their activities.The leader just tell them what to do and they will do it.They can't ask their leader why they must to do it because that question is very sensitive for the leader.If someone in that group ask that question,he must to give some money to the leader or he will be beat-up with her friends.But i actually not sure that person is still alive or not.
Honestly,i know everything about this.What the group activities and what that group will do with someone that they do not like.
I told you ryna and to all my friends,be careful with the person who was participate with any group.If that person do not like you,you will get some trouble.I mean,you life if not save.If that person like you,you can use that person to protect yourself from other gangs.
Em....I do not know what i want to share with you all anymore.Enough for this day.
-hafiz-
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