Assalamualaikum..
Hi there.. this week is my turn to share about something in this blog.
First of all, I want to apologize to all of you because I’m quite late to post my article. This is happen because I have no idea to what I want talking about, but I must share something to all of u.
My topic for this week is talk to yourself..
I’ve always been a little nervous, culturally, about talking to my selves. I somehow associate it with insanity. But my aunt already said to me and the same thing to her students that “talking to self is the ways to self motivation”.
Yup and I agree with her because there is no one better to talk than yourself if you really want to get things worked out. No other person has as much information about your problems and no one knows your skills and our abilities better than yourself.
A lot of people in the motivational and psychological field recommend confirmation. You choose a sentence to say, such as “Every day in every way I’m getting better and better,” or “don’t be afraid, I can do it”, and repeat it whether or not you think it’s true. While confirmations are a good first step to re-programming, I prefer conversation. However, I still lost my confident too when I forgot to talk to myself as usually to motivate myself.
Rather than brainlessly parroting to me, “I’m getting better and better,” it makes a longer-lasting impression when I successfully argue the case. Enough self-talk can prove myself that I’m getting better. Its one thing to try to hypnotize myself through repetition to accept something as true, and it’s quite another to make myself confident.
Sometime most people don’t talk to themselves very much. They listen to the radio; watch TV, gossip and fill up on the words and thoughts of other people all day long. But it’s is impossible to indulge in that kind of activity and self-create. As Plato said, thinking is simply your soul talking it itself. And because thought always precedes action, talking to you is a proven way to get motivated.
That is all from me in this week.
Tq..
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-zaidah-
17 comments:
Positive thinking sometimes can help a person to gain confidence in what he/she can do. Talking to yourself is one of the ways for positive thinking.
However, talking to yourself or smiling to yourself can sometimes make us misunderstood by others. Hahaha. Some people will think that we are crazy. I smile to some people, and I think they think that something is wrong with me. I was just being polite. Its a good thing that I talk to myself without people around. I wonder if I will be sent to Tanjung Rambutan if I do talk to myself when people is around?
Talking to yourself. I've done it before. It can really make me think things through. Makes me feel better. That's why I am agreeing with this article.
-Ali Imran-
in my opinion,idea are more sharp than sword..because firstly we must think before we talk or act..so to succes,try to manipulate your mind.
Talk to ourself and thinking positive is a better ways to become a better person...
for example, we can improving our ability to speak in front the people by talking to yourself in the mirror....
and often thinking positive is a great ways when you deals with something, like David Blaine once said; if you keep in your mind "i can do it" when you want to do something, you can do anything no matter how hard it could be....
-syukri-
erm...
talk to yourself?to me,its one of better ways to motivate yourself..i always do that if i feel down.
but the first thing i do is calm myself.and try to think positively.after that i will talk in my heart and said "its ok..try to do better than before".
juz like zaidah said,“I’m getting better and better,”..After that,i will do my work with my 'new' spirit.
Assalamualaikum...
Talk to urself...
I already do this ways...
Ways can motivate urself...
When u talk to urself, the confident in live can grow up back...
Such when u have problem in love, when u talk to urself, u just leave it the problem and there are good ways to confident back..
Talk to urself also can give u confident when u nervous to talk in english to public.....
Hehehehehe as a normal human, we not perfect...
Happy Chinese New Year to Miss Jean...
-Nurul Khairiyah -
ello.sory for late to post a comment..coz i forgot..well talk to our self???erm well for me it is good to us to talk to our self sometime...but we don't talk louder coz if other people heard..they might be think us crazy..haha..well..we should talk to uorself so we can improve.that all..bye.
THERE ARE MANY DIFFERENT possible ways to talk to yourself. One way is to reassure yourself. For example, before a party you might be feeling a little nervous so you tell yourself, "It's going to be fine. It'll turn out okay."
Of all the possible ways to talk to yourself, asking yourself a question is the most powerful. Questions direct your mind and set trains of thought into motion. That's what makes them so powerful. Questions are generative. They generate thought. And because they are so powerful it really makes a difference to pay attention to the questions you ask yourself and to ask yourself good questions.
What makes a good question? That's the obvious next question, isn't it? What makes a question a good question? The answer is simple. A high-quality question has a good result. It focuses your attention on something that makes you effective. It directs your mind to something that helps you successfully handle the situation. A question is good if it leads to a good result.
Bad question: What if they don't like me?
Good question: What is something I could do right now that would make me more likable?
Bad question: What if I fail to accomplish my goal?
Good question: What's the most important thing I could do to make sure I accomplish my goal?
A high-quality question is one that produces an end-result you desire. Check in on the questions you ask yourself (you'll have to pay attention because your thoughts are happening automatically much of the time) and then ask this question: "What is the result of asking myself that question?"
If the result isn't good, ask yourself, "What result do I want?" And when you decide on a result, ask yourself, "What question can I ponder that would help me achieve that result?" Don't settle for the first thing that pops into your head! Think about it. Make a list. Force yourself to come up with ten good possible questions.
Then choose the best question — the one that will produce the best result — and practice asking yourself that question. Literally practice. Ask that question many times. Get used to asking it. Make it familiar and comfortable and automatic.
Asking yourself a good question is a very powerful tool. What great things do you think it can help you achieve? Good question.
-sofi-
talk to my self?????
em......
let me think fist..
yup!!!
when i talk to my self i feel more confident becoz no want can critic to my grammar n
pronounsation ....
i alwayz talk in front mirror b4 i do a short presentation to make me suitable wif the word that i will use...
so....
TALK 2 UR SELF EVRYDAY HEHE!!!!!
hye...hm, for me talking to ur elf doesnt mean u r crazy...and self talk is how u talk to ur self throughout the day..and its actuallt real mind power.So regularly talk to ur self wif the positive ways.Such as "i can do"! And if u said you can't do,it means u r the negative thnking person.....daaaaa
Talk to urself is way to motivate urself to become better person.By talking to urself it can influencing u to do something that give more benefit to u.Like u want to success in this semester and then u talk to urself everyday u want to study hard and smart,u want to be one of dean list,u want enhance ur pointer and so on.By that as soon as possible it can give u spirit to do that.Therefore, it can make u to think positively and and can teach u way how to talk.Talking to your Self.They won't lock you up for doing that! And if they do, at least you'll have someone to talk to there who loves you - your invisible best friend!
hmm,quite intereting about this topic cause i admit that i like to talk to myself especially about the thing that i ve done...sometimes it is very shame cause other people can hear what i'm talking.i always shout or scream to myself if i ve done some stupig things...it is wrong????
In my opinion,talking to self is another way to motivate ourself.when we talk,we realise what ve you done and from them you can correct the mistakes..i always remember what my mother said that,"dont depend to other people to correct your mistales,but you must correct it first for youself".....
So,from now i want to remind all of you and to myself to talk to ourself cause it is the best way to motivate us.don't care what other people said about you.only you can change yourselves...
Dear all,
Most of us will talk to ourselves. Be it in the car, in the toilet, watching tv or even cooking. Its a way for us to interact wif ourselves as well as motivating ourselves in doing somethg. sometimes we talk to ourselves to ease the turmoil or confuse mind that we have!
it's good at times to talk to ourselves as we wont keep everything bottle up in us. tat will ensure us not to EXPLODE!
i agree with ain..that's, talking to yourself does't mean you are crazy..i also a person who is always talking to myself..everyday before i sleep, i will talk to myself to give motivate and set in my mind for the next day that i will doing and getting better than yesterday..i just thinking a positive and if i think a negative, i will improve myself..
Self-confidence is extremely important in almost every aspect of our lives, and yet it is difficult to get it in balance.Struggling to find the inner power to bring to another dimension.A new "ME".i got some others methods to do find it inside me.
1.Doing what i believe to be right, even if others criticize me for it.People can say whatever they want, but the action is only me.
2.Being willing to take some considerable risks and with the extra effort to achieve better things.
3.Admitting my mistakes and learn from them.I always know when i am wrong..
-UMAM-
"I never be suprised when you down.But i really amazed when you stand-up again and fight."
Assalamualaikum.
When we hear about this,we think that person was crazy.Other people would think,why that person didn't talk with other people.Hahaha...so...crazy.
But it very good for me.You all know i was very shy when to talk with other person because i think i'm not suitable to talk with them.I know my English language is very bad.That why i do not want to speak English with other person.
I more like to talk to myself because doesn't have anyone can hear what i was talking about.I can talk whatever i want.I can know what my problem and what i fell when i was do that.
It also can release our tension.Why i say like that? because when you talk to yourself,you can get some ways to solve your problem by yourself.
i think,i didn't have any point to share with you all.
Thanks you
-hafiz-
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