Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal emotion. . Love is not a single feeling but an emotion built from two or more feelings. Anything vital to us creates more than one feeling, and we also have feelings about our feelings (and thoughts about our feelings). This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
As an abstract concept, love usually refers to a deep, innefable feeling of tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual emotional closeness of familial and platonic love to the profound.
Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most, if not all of us, will face. While there are many different ways to defined love and there are many different ways to love someone (even yourself), here is a general guide to loving.How to show our love to people that are we felling love????
- Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
- Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
- Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
- Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you, do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
- Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love.
In up there have are tips how we can show our love either love with family , love to good and love with somebody that can make we happy.........But what i can says here, love also can make people want to kill himself if they not control their emotions. Love also can give advantages and disadvantages when people fell it...


28 comments:
aiii
eiiiiiiiiii...............
love?????
wats dat????
i thinks....
love is a very stupid thing dat i have learn...
i have fall in love with someone..
and i thinks dat is a very stupid n crazy thing...
n love is a something dat i never learn but it comes to me just like dat...
ok komen 4 dis article is..
emmm......
i thing...
love can make someone happy...cheerful n can make someone sad....
when u break up...
u may tension n stress..
so in this very young age..
n still studies in universities we should not fall in love...
but if u thinks u can separate and maintain ur love n your studies it is okey....
NO LOVE.....
JUZ STUDIES....
IF STILL WANT LOVE....
CARRY ON..
BUT..
ONCE U BREAK UP...
Uu....
IT IS SO HARD TO SAY.....
HAHA...
SO STUDY STUDY N STUDY..
CHAIYOK CHAIYOK!!!!
GAMBATE*(third language)
i want post my comment more.....
hehe may i??????
love??
for me juz knw how to keep aside ur personal problems and focus on ur stdies..
this is a love poem for all of u guys:
And again I feel the pressure of her slender little hand,
As we used to talk together of the future we had planned,--
When I should be a poet, and with nothing else to do
But write the tender verses that she set the music to . . .
Then we should live together in a cozy little cot
Hid in a nest of roses, with a fairy garden spot,
Where the vines were ever fruited, and the weather ever fine,
And the birds were ever singing for that old sweetheart of mine
so,romantic...hahahaha
i'm not the one who r rmntic like tht...hahaha
juz apprciatd when some1 love u...
love can destroy ur life if u don't knw how to handle it....
i 'm heppy wif my beloved 1....
nurul keep it up....
don't cry juz bcz a men hurt ur feelings...
men will always be men......
:p
yups dat rite ain...
haha...
men alwayz b men...
all same...
juz want a beautiful gurlz....
huh....not enough and loyal 4 one gurl...
hipokrit!!!!
em....all GENTLEMEN IN dcs3a...
CAN U DEFEND 4 UR SPESIES DAT ONLY WANT A BEUITIFUL N SOLID/SLIM GURLZ????
post ur comment i want to know...whether it true or not!!!!
hye...Zue..so many comments..seems like u very interesting with this topic...why??huu..
well love???
love for me is abstract.love does not mean between guys and girl only.It also love between us with our family,our frenz and nature. How we show our love??sometimes we as human always make mistake,for example when our "boyfrenz" or maybe "gurlfrenz" ask us to do something,we will do it with say anything.if they scold us,we just let it be..But we never did that with our parents..sometimes we never listen to what our parents said..sometimes we make them cry..is that love??no..we can't love someone else if we don't love our parents and we don't love ourself..so for me love is abstract,everyone will feel it..just how we feel is diffrent...
zue..listen.. we have try to forget if we have problems..we can't just always think and make ourself suffer.just let it be...
Love....
i never fell in love before, so i dont know how the feeling of something called LOVE....
but there something i wanna say about love, i think love is the sweetest thing that had happen in someone life....
when we in love, we just want to do anything to make the person we loved felt happy, even though it could hurt ourself.....
when we in love, we cant afford to live without person that we love even in a minute......
when we in love, we can't even sees the person we loved felt sad, and we always want to make she/he smile no matter what happen...
so, its is the sweetest thing right....
hopely i can find my love 2.....
-syukri-
everyone in this world is different, that why this world is colourful....
to all of you, you cannot blame all man for not be a loyal one just because you knew some of them which are not loyal......
there still a lot of man out there which are loyal and being nice to their loved one like me......
its just like the old man says "kerana nila setitik, rosak susu sebelanga".....
-syukri-
hye...
love??
try to fall in love with someone...aha..and feel it.
juz kidding...dont do this at home friends,but it ok if you want.lalala..
to me,love not juz refer to someone who we call 'boyfriend','hubby','syg','abang','ucuk' or somthing else..even not married yet.
our love can belong to our family.
now,i juz focus my relationship between my family's member.
'love' make me feel that i appreciated.and comfortable.aha...
as a student,focus on your study like zue said."caya la zue"...
an actually we are carrying our parents hope.remember that..;p
we have times yet to find 'love'..for example,after study.we will face others person.who knows,we will find someone who is better than before...kn4??
k la..thats all..
well....
eja....
evryone have a their story bout love...dat is my komen bout dat article.....
different people...
different story....
but thanks...
i 4got to comment bout love 4 parent....u.....
actually...love 4 parents is d most important things then love 4 another person..
BUT LOVE 4 ALLAH SWT is a love 4 ever lasting n 4ever.....
huhu....
cae' u got mu comment...
n read my comment????
thanks a lot...
study first...
"kejar CITA-CITA dulu baru kejar CINTA!!!"
Assalamualaikum.
love???
Alamak.....
Aida....aida.Why you say all men are same?
For me,beauty is not important to me but her attitude.You want to know why i say like that? It because i have a bad attitude.I need someone to change my bad attitude.
Honestly,i have a lovely girlfriend.Thanks god because meet me with my girlfriend.She always be patient with my bad attitude.She teach me everything about something that i didn't know.Especially about religion.
First time,i was very angry and shy because my girlfriend tell and teach me about that.I tell her,"you think you are so good? how dare you tell and teach me about this!".But she ignore it.She tell and keep teaching me everyday until now.
I do not know why.But she said,she very like me and want me to be her husband and want to change my bad attitude.I always tell her,I'm not suitable with her but she ignore it.It make me want to change my bad attitude.
Alhamdulillah.Now my attitude was not same like before.Before this,when someone make me angry..i didn't thinks anything else.Just want to beat him.Today,anyone can doing something that they want to do to me but have a limit.
I want to be a good men and a good husband.Maybe for you all,my girlfriend is not beautiful but for me,she is very beautiful.That all.Thanks you.
-hafiz-
wow3...well i'm not aspect thts myclssmate very interestng wth this topic..erm well hafiz..i like ur story..erm ur girlfrenz is almost like me..coz i also want to chnge my beloved attitude..erm n i thinks i almost chnge him..but not all...why guys always want make gurl cry???did they never think about their feeling??
can u guys comment this???
hate it so much..i hate to cry anymore...i cannot do other work when i'm crying..well perhaps 4 u guys always see me as a person that rarely cry..but i always cry...almost everyday...
and i hate it..
love??
hmmm,it was vry interesting topic to talk about especially when we are in teenagers time.but,for me i ve fall in love but he does not know..it was happen since i was in secondary school.
For me,love is not just between boys and gurls but also between family and friends also..
But,now i also feel so happy i was being love by my family...it was more important to me.but i believed my true love will come in my future life,maybe when i have finished my study.
huu.........hafiz........
u have a gurlzfrenz?????
yup....u r so lucky to have a gf like dat.dat can change ur attitude.....
but sometime...u must remember....
if today we love someone....
if today we love our couple too much....
all people can say dat
I WANT TO BE UR HUSBAND/WIFE....
I WANT TO LIVE WITH U WITL ALL MY HEART....
BUT!!!!
u must thinks bout future...
EvRYBODY WILL CHANGE...
AND DAT TIME...
u will remember all the word dat she say to you....
but if u n ur gurlzfrenz will everlasting 4ever.....
ALHAMDULILLAH...
THANKS GOD...
honestly..
i never belive love at all...
dat is my comment....
thank u....:)
BOSAN...!!!!
-es-
haha...!!!
ini article copy paste r....
siap lupe nk remove hyperlink kt ayat (say the words "I Love You")..
agak2 la nk copy paste pon....
buang hyperlink dlu....
hahahahaha..... :D
-es-
pergh....
hafiz ...!!!
its realy shocking me man...!!!
OOOooo
that why u love to hear lagu jiwang karat....
gud boys dude...
u r the man..!!!
hahahaha....!!
-sofi-
Aida,what are u talking about is true but i hope my relationship with her not be like that.Everyday we are communicate each other.When we have a problem,we will make a discussion to solve our problem.If i or she make some mistake,we say "sorry" to each other early and give a reason.I want to try to make she happy with me everyday.
Sofi!!!! If get you,i want to beat you.Useless!
For eja,think positive.
Bye2..... =)
come and get me...
if u can....
haha...!!!!
where is miss jean??
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