talk to yourself

Assalamualaikum..

Hi there.. this week is my turn to share about something in this blog.

First of all, I want to apologize to all of you because I’m quite late to post my article. This is happen because I have no idea to what I want talking about, but I must share something to all of u.

My topic for this week is talk to yourself..

I’ve always been a little nervous, culturally, about talking to my selves. I somehow associate it with insanity. But my aunt already said to me and the same thing to her students that “talking to self is the ways to self motivation”.

Yup and I agree with her because there is no one better to talk than yourself if you really want to get things worked out. No other person has as much information about your problems and no one knows your skills and our abilities better than yourself.

A lot of people in the motivational and psychological field recommend confirmation. You choose a sentence to say, such as “Every day in every way I’m getting better and better,” or “don’t be afraid, I can do it”, and repeat it whether or not you think it’s true. While confirmations are a good first step to re-programming, I prefer conversation. However, I still lost my confident too when I forgot to talk to myself as usually to motivate myself.

Rather than brainlessly parroting to me, “I’m getting better and better,” it makes a longer-lasting impression when I successfully argue the case. Enough self-talk can prove myself that I’m getting better. Its one thing to try to hypnotize myself through repetition to accept something as true, and it’s quite another to make myself confident.

Sometime most people don’t talk to themselves very much. They listen to the radio; watch TV, gossip and fill up on the words and thoughts of other people all day long. But it’s is impossible to indulge in that kind of activity and self-create. As Plato said, thinking is simply your soul talking it itself. And because thought always precedes action, talking to you is a proven way to get motivated.

That is all from me in this week.

Tq..

written by:

-zaidah-

Rape

Assalammualaikum..

Hi,there!!

Our topic for tis week is RAPE.

Here is a numberfor you:354670.That is the number of women that were raped in 1995 in United States.That’s mean,equivalent of one women being raped in two minutes.Want more number?
In the last two year,more than 787000 women were the victim of a rape or sexual assault,but only 37% of raped are reported by authorities.

When we say word “rape”,people automatically think of a stranger jumping out of the bushes or chasing you down an ally.Actually,rape is define as “forced,manipulated or coerced sexual contact by someone either you know him or not”.

For your information,rape can be occur when a man and a woman are alone whether in car or at home.Also,drugs and alcohol can drive you to date rape.According to research,many of the victim said that they are drank too much or took too many drugs but after they wake up,it was late.Another reason why rape occur,the misunderstand of woman friendliness.For example,the woman is a friendly person.So,she easy to communicating and friendly to people.And the man will misunderstand on woman friendliness.They might think that it was signal or “invitation” to have sex.

The reason that men do this because they think that they are tought to be aggressive and controlling at early age.Actually,as the person that have the strength mire than women,they should be protective to women,not assume that women as a sex object.Women are human being too.Men should relize that this attitude can lead them to date rape.

However,,women should know how to prevent rape before it happened.There are many steps you can take to prevent being raped.The first step is be psychologically prepared because women must accept the fact that they are potential to be rape victim.Second step is to be aware of community rape prevention and counseling.The third psychological step is to recognize the location and situation where rape is mostly happened.So that we can avoid it.

That’s all for this week..thank you.

written by:
shahira

What's this?

Cute? Like to have one? :)

There are many things to consider when we have children in our lives for example, will they be able to grow up strong & healthy? will they have enough money to study or will they grow up to be a good person... mmm....

It's hard nowadays to have children & yet have to work to meet the high demands in lives. But yet, try to remember how our own parents have managed to bring us up so far and we survived.

DO we appreciated our parents then? There were cases of children sending their parents to old folks home, speaks to them rudely, ignore them when they grew up etc.

Parents in Palastine are trying very hard to save their children, providing them with food and water and a SAFE place to stay. It's heartbreaking to see them mourn & cry over their children's bodies.

But what about you? Can you do something for your parents? Do you show ur gratitude and appreciations to them?

Pray for them so that they can live a long life and blessed them for giving us such a good life.

Blog,blogging,bloggers.

Hi there.
For the first time i write a post in this blog.Tanx to Miss Jean for introducing the blog method to this class so we can share an idea with each other.

First of all,what do you think of blogging??what is the purpose of blogging??
There are lot of bloggers in this world.Most of them writing about their own story.Their own life,love and opinion.Bloggers also will share and information about education and world news.I also was a blogger.But most of the content in my blog are about personal matters and music.There are lot of fun when you blogging.Sometimes it can gave me a satisfaction when writting on your own wall and lot of people will read and comment.

In my opinion,blog is better then other social networking website such as myspace,friendster etc,etc,etc.Because,people will know you more close when they read your post.They will know what type of person you are.Blog is more like to your own website.Everything you can do with blog.

But if you are bussiness minded person,blog also can generate a money.Because,there are some of bloggers become a millionare.You can join google adsense and attach it to your blog.It some kind of advertistment when people visit to your blog and click to the advertistment then you will get the pay.

Remember,there are disadvantage too when you blogging.Dont ever write a sensitive issues and polictics.You will be end up in jail.

well,thats all for my article this time.

Written by,
Borhan Zahedi.

Does blogging help u to improve ur writing skill?

hi everyone,

i would just like to find out from u people if posting ur comments or opinions in tis blog actually help improving ur writing skills? Do u feel more comfortable giving ur ideas & not having to face people or do u tink it's more difficult for u? give me ur opinion on tis k...

see ya.. waiting for ur reply soon.

Ms Jean

welcome

welcome to the DCS3A's blog.I hope everyone enjoy your visit here and don't forget to post your opinion in this blog.